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Manage-Wise
The power of persuasion
Who
wields the worlds greatest power? Who accomplishes their dreams?
The most influential people are those who can effectively get things done. They
influence others to agree or comply, to effectively execute goals, objectives
and wishes. Success, perhaps survival, for you and your organization hinges
primarily on one skill: the power of persuasionthe ability to persuade
people to say yes, to willingly concur or follow your directions
or act on your behalf. Power may be granted from bosses above you, yet execution
and results are accomplished through your success in influencing others.
Persuaders rule. They always have and always will. Great persuaders have enormous
power. They motivate change. Build successful teams. Revitalize entire organizations.
They create growth and profit. They lead others to new heights. And they achieve
personal goals for wealth, power and influence. Every human interaction requires
persuasion: the ability to influence cooperation, collaboration and results.
Great leaders motivate us. They ignite passion. They persuade us to act. The
worlds greatest achievements have been accomplished through persuasion.
OK. So persuasion is critical to success. We all know that.
They question is, what do we know today about the process of persuasion that
we didnt know before? Whats different? What can we learn to become
better persuaders? The difference is simple, dramatic and, indeed, exciting.
With the recent advent of live, real-time brain imaging technology, and with
the resulting disciplines emerging in neuroscience, we have actually learned,
for the first time, how the human brain processes information. Finally we know
how we make, and how we influence, decisions that determine behaviors and actions.
And what weve learned will forever change the way we interact with others.
In his book and five-part PBS TV series, The Secret Life of the Brain, Dr Richard
Restak, M.D, neurologist, neuropsychologist, researcher, and clinical professor
of neurology at George Washington University Medical Centre in Washington, D.C.,
offers us a real eye-opener. Restak, one of the worlds top neurological
scientists, recipient of the Linacre Medal for Humanity and Medicine and of
the Decade of the Brain Award, uses his chapter, The Adult Brain,
to distill our current brain research into the following blockbuster shown in
the books opening: We are not thinking machines, we are feeling
machines that think.
In another of his books, Mozarts Brain and the Fighter Pilot, Restak puts
the new knowledge in overall context, summing up the best information we have
to date about brain function and how we actually process sensory input to the
brain:
Despite popular notions to the contrary, the brain does not operate like a computer
or any other machine. Thats why we have to stop forcing it to act in ways
that are unnatural and unproductive. Your brain is not a logic machine. As it
turns out, emotions and feelings about something or someone occur before youve
made any attempt at conscious evaluation.
This is strong stuff! For several thousand years weve primarily been taught,
at least in educated society, to use logic and reason to influence decisions
and actions. Yet all this time even the most sophisticated among us have typically
been forcing the brain to act in unnatural, unproductive ways. Not smart! The
good news is theres a better way to persuade, to influence, to gain compliance,
to obtain commitment on decisions and actions that are in the best interest
for all concerned.
Hit or miss, trail and error
Sure, salespeople, advertisers, and others have been using emotional appeals
for years. But its been hit and miss. Weve been working on instinct
or hard-fought trial-and-error efforts. Now we have solid facts to help us become
consciously competent in the science of persuasion. The better we understand
how our brains process information, the better well be able to communicate
with othersdoing so not in a manner that works against the brain but in
a way that employs our natural brain process.
As science evolves were coming to realize that our standard approaches
to persuasion have been completely wrong. Most of us have learned to persuade
by using the best arguments, the best data, and the best information available;
all presented in a logical and rational manner to generate the thinking, decisions,
and actions we seek. Business leadersactually most of usbelieve
that our peers rely heavily on logic and reason to make their decisions and
inform their actions. Suddenly, to everyones amazement, were learning
that the brain just doesnt work this way.
In Business to Business magazine, Emory University
business school professor Joseph Reiman writes:
Neuroimaging technology allows us to measure brain activity and it does so more
accurately because neurons dont lie. The little guys, neurons, all ten
billion of them, prove there is a chemical and biological basis how we behave,
and their message is: business behaves wrongly.
Wow! Thats quite a statementthat we now know the chemical and biological
basis for how we behave.
And with that knowledge, we know what weve been doing wrongand more
important, we know what we can do better to influence others. So if we are not
thinking machines, if we are not primarily influenced by logic and cognitive
reasoning, how do we make decisions? And more important, how do we influence
the decisions of others? Simply put, we each have internal databases that provide
us with the ability to immediately feel the right response to outside stimuli.
From birth, we build our own internal databases that form our personal self-guidance
system. This system automatically triggers our best responses to external stimuli.
Our triggers are embedded in our brains; they belong specifically to each of
us. Triggering yes is a process in which we help othersour
persuasion partnersactivate their own decision-making navigation system.
Who needs persuasion skills
Dr. Condoleezza Rice graduated college cum laude and Phi Beta Kappa at age 19
from the University of Denver. Her experience in positions of power led her
to claim: Power is nothing unless you can turn it in to influence.
Her thoughts are echoed by Harvard Business School Professor Michael D. Watkins:
Formal authority and other resources of leadership are never sufficient
to get things done. Leaders need the power to persuade.
Leaders, executives, managers, line and staff each succeed or fail in proportion
to the individuals skill of persuasion.
Each must influence and gain compliance from those up, down, and across every
strata of the organization. And yes, lets include suppliers and clients
among those we need to persuade.
We often think we can get results by telling people what to do. Cant CEOs,
executives and managers do that? Dont we tell our kids, spouses what we
want done? Cant the president of the United States just tell people what
to do and get it done? Not according to President Harry S. Truman who said,
I sit here all day trying to persuade peoplethats all powers
of the president amount to.
Richard Neustadt, in his book Presidential Power and the Modern Presidents,
writes, In these words of a president, spoken on the job, one finds the
problem now before us: powers are no guaranty of power.
Neustadt adds, There is a widely held belief in the United States that
a reasonable president would need no power other than the logic of his argument.
But logic just doesnt cut iteven for the president. And when Neustadt
wrote: Presidential power is the power to persuade, he forced us
to reconceptualize the presidency.
Excerpt from The 7 Triggers to Yes by Russell
H. Granger. Reproduced with permission © 2008, Tata McGraw-Hill Publishing
Company Limited. Price: Rs. 299. Vishwanath_Ghanekar@mcgraw-hill.com
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